Quote: He hasn't said ILY yet but he is more affectionate, he does initiate ML and likes it when I cuddle. I had to put my pride aside and be the one who reached out to him even though he was the one who hurt me. I started by just holding his hand, we slept on the same room but we didnt' ML for a while, even if he did only if I initiated.
I was wondering about reaching out to him but really not sure. H has stated all the way through this nightmare that we will not be ML unless he decides he's staying and his feelings come back. I just don't see how they'll come back if we don't at least kiss or cuddle or something. After all you kiss people if you ar dating them at the beginning and its one of the things that separates the R from all your others. I had a little cry in front of him on Monday and then was worried I'd ruined everything but he did say "I'm not going to run out the door or anything just because you've cried" in a very caring way wo maybe this is the start of him feeling a spark???
How long have you and your H been trying for now??
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
