Quote: I just remembered another recurring theme whenever I try to have an heart-to-heart. Whenever I tell her of my hurt (and I've avoided it because of this), she tells me that it's my problem (that I'm hurt) or that her lack of libido is her problem. I'm always trying to make "couple" problems out of personal issues. She also points out there were times when I've rejected her.
Boy does that sound familiar. Listen Andy...I would love to help but I feel at a total loss here and oddly enough, I feel as though I am facing many of the same problems...I dont have answers for myself and therefor very little imput for you.
Sounds like she's in "zombie" mode and what is needed is perhaps a sort of reality check. But what? You say you have tried the "heart to heart" and the alone time. Maybe something completely unplanned. I know that a special needs child can make this difficult but would it be possible to plan something WITHOUT her knowledge and then, when she arrives, do not ask her if she feels like it or not, do not teel her about it. Simply take her out somewhere...Not for supper ar a movie or anything like that but something odd and wonderfull! You know, sort of "Cirque du Soleil" type of thing! NAC's got Anna Carrina coming in October??
Sorry about the poor quality here, I'm struggling myself with some of this!
