Andy, Going back when I had to give W some space (boy I'm spend a lot of time back there today!) , I concentrated my time with D8 (8 yr old D). I taught her how to play chess, backgammon, dominos, etc. We also played games she liked as well - checkers, chutes & ladders. Two - three nites a week, this turned into a routine. Sometimes, my W would observe from the sidelines. As time went on, W would spend more and more time in the same room as us as we played. While she did little participation in playing she has come to enjoy being with us. It allowed a new way for us to interact in a happier family setting. As other activities increased we had to cut back some on this, but everyone still looks forward to Wednesday nights as game nite.
