Quoting ANS:
It’s a simple matter of her not communicating that to me – or even more likely – I’m not receptive to her communications of it.

BTW, Steph. I think this may just apply to you, too.


I think her asking me to stay "awhile" in the late evening is a perfect example of me not being receptive ti her communications! I usually realize this only after the fact and when my chance to act upon her communications is long gone!

Thanks for putting the words to the sentiment! You have a nack for making concrete what is mostly vague and abstract in my mind!

Steph