Thanks again, JJ. More great ideas for me to try (once I can get to see W, that is).
As to mini-vacations in the house. We can't even get a minute outside the house. For example, when W got back from blading yesterday, I was outside. I couldn't get 2 words out before the kids started hollering at her though the back door!
I think it's gonna have to be hit-and-run for the moment.
To be honest, I could accept that if there was a little more hitting. Especially in the intimacy dept.
Lately, W has been turning the other cheek when I kiss her. Doesn't feel very good.
But the last few days, she's actually taking me by the shoulder when I kiss her, so I'm feeling a little better.
Her reply to ILY has been a grunt at best. Well, she just called me at work to see if I could take d#1 to yoga (yes... yet another thing). Before hanging up, I said ILY, and she replied, "me too."
It really doesn't take much to make me happy sometimes.
Ooooooops. Did I say make me happy? No.No.No!!!!! W can't make me happy!!! Only I can do that!
BTW, a few years back, W bought a "One Minute" book. Don't remember the title, something like The one minute marriage In it, they recommended a one minute kiss, which W wanted to do.
It kinda irks me sometimes when she can't even do that.