You have some great ideas. I'll bear them in mind. One thing that's stopping me from doing some of them right away is that I'm pretty burnt out myself.
As I write this, it's 6:40PM. I've been at work since about 7:30AM. Work is really hectic right now, and frankly it pisses me off. I was on call last weekend. Would have liked to ask W to do something, but...
Last night, I did a minor hit-and-run of sorts.
I accidentally brushed against W's er...um... shoulder? So I gave her a kiss on the neck. Then a bite on the neck. She smiled a little, so I said, "Well, I'm tired. Not dead." That elicited a giggle.
I also play "footsie" a little in bed. I can at least put my foot against hers w/o bothering her sleep.
But as for changing the routine, I'm gonna have to wait a little.
There's so much going on. I only mentioned a few things, but d#1 driving lessons, s#1 karate, d#2 singing, d#1/d#2 dancing... I could go on.
Believe me, W and I are both kept hopping.
But believe me, I'm gonna revisit your post. It was really great!