"I feel kinda selfish because I'm thinking about what's missing in the R for me, but I know that if I can find the missing link, W will be happier too."

Sorry, buddy, but I have to disagree with you on this one.

If this is what you're striving for, this may be where you're getting stuck.

Unless you're talking about your wife having a happier Andy to have an R with, so they can find the missing links together.

P.S. Re your son's autism, have any of your Dr.'s checked into the possibility of him maybe having epilepsy, or some other kind of seizure disorder?

Some friends of our have a son who was diagnosed as autistic, and was treated as such for 15 years. After doing some research, the Dr.'s treated him with some med's used in seizure therapy, and the results were dramatic.

Don't know if you've been down this path yet, but, if you haven't, it might be worth checking into.

Last edited by Jamesjohn; 10/02/02 08:14 PM.
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