You are doing more than my W is right now as far as reassuring and working on the R. I'm kinda stuck in going through the motions of M right now. W is not really opening up or having any intimate talks, which bothers me a little. I'm not sure if I should initiate a casual conv. about our R as I have been patiently waiting for her to do it. I just fear that she thinks of OM whenever I want to be intimate with her, and I'm not sure how long that will last. I guess I need to make it a goal so I can know when I've reached it.
I know that whenever I bring up OM and the A, my W blows a gasket! so for me it is not beneficial to my R when I do that. It sucks for me because I need to be reassured, but for now my W is doing that through her actions. Even though I know that actions speak louder than words, I still need those words, and backed up with a smile.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~