Thanks Sol - I think today he had too much time to think at work (always gets him riled up).

We've talked since and he's a bit better. He's really hurting and I will continue to reassure him over and over (and over!)

I know that he wants to figure out a way to work through this, but he keeps asking me how he's supposed to do it. I tell him that we will do it together and that we'll be all the more stronger for it. I think he's ok with hearing that because it takes a bit of the wind out of his sails.

Bottom line: He's hurt, angry and rightfully so. I want to show him that I mean everything I say. I'm still trying to come up with "You are number One with me" things. Last night's ML session I think was a good start!