GC, your H is venting out his anger and hurt. It is all an emotional outlet. I do it too, but not so much in front of my W now, though I do get those >>moments<<!! All you can do right now is validate him and reassure. Like r.o.o.t. said, reassure him over and over. I need my W to do that for me from time to time, and the anger and hurt I have is still there, just controlled and I am learning to deal with it day by day. Otherwise, how could I DB effectively?
Take it one day at a time. When he gets moody like this, you need to detach and let him be, even if it's for just a while. Let him work out his emotions. He can't be angry all the time.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
