Good question Andy, very good question. I'd like to know the answer to that one myself. I know I have changed but Adrian;s perseption of that change has not caught up to reality yet.Oh, he sees little things, but not the big things. He's still saying I'm doing things I know I'm not doin gnaymore or if I do its rare. It only takes one time though for him to be back to square one. Very frustrating. I have to be patient like you and keep it up for a long time fro him to really take notice. I want the lightbulb to come on too.Maybe I've got it screwed in too tight or not tight enough. Time is all that will tell. Rachael
