Yes it does suck but you are going to have to let it happen for now. If you were always right up under his nose, then that would be like him find out about the A over, and over, and over again. He has to process it and deal with the emotions that he is going through. When he has some quiet time, I am sure that he sits and thinks about whether he wants this M or not. If our WAS were as willing to work on our M as you are, we would be on our hands and knees day and night thanking God for the opportunity to make things right.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
