Thanks. One of the issues with us is I lost weight so he finds me somewhat attractive but the OM made me a running schedule so he sees my weight loss for OM and not anyone else. I don't blame him but I don't know how to show him it wasn't for him. And how do you make yourself attractive to someone who is repulsed at "the new you"??
UA: I lost weight just dealing with this issue (40 lbs) and my H keeps telling me how much he likes the new me. But that doesn't stop the "is it for someone else" questions. I wouldn't tell him that it's your stress that's causing it, it will seem like you are blaming him. Part of my problem was always self esteem - so I tell him that weighing less is something that makes "me" feel good. Not turning to anyone or anything else to do it.
