I have a question for everyone. My husband thinks that I cheated on him 9 years ago. To make a long story very short, I did go out w/ friends alot during that time (I was young and 23 yrs old) I DID NOT CHEAT! I have told him this a million times. He will not believe me, and to this day - still brings it up (sometimes right in front of our son). I just recently started to hang around w/ a friend of mine that I used to party with. I had not talked to her in 6.5 years. He is so mad that I am going over to her house(she lives out of town) and meeting her for dinner when she is in town - that he has told me if I continue to speak to her, then he will divorce me. I have to admit, years ago we did party together alot- but now we both have responsibilites, good jobs and I have a child. After 8 years and alot of growing up, I do not want to do the same things I did when I was young. He does not trust me when I am with her. Ever since we have been hanging out again (started speaking to each other again 8 months ago), I have done nothing that could be considered even remotely suspicious. Like I said the story is longer than this, but I am so upset over this ultimatum! I know that my past has been less than perfect and I admit that I did things that he did not like. He cannot let go of what is in the past. He always says things like "you cheated on me -just admit it" and "you and your friend were sleeping with everybody" What should I do??? I am not going to admit to something that I did not do! I also do not want to end my friendship w/ her because I am not doing anything wrong.
