I'm sorry to hear that. Now you need to focus on you, and allow him the space he needs. Everyone works on different time scales, you just need to stick to DBing as best you can so he can come around. It takes time, and I'm still working on being patient with my W. I had to give her "space" as well when I was crowding her. I was "up her a$$ too - her words! So I stopped doing that, and tried detaching.
Now you need to work on you with the ultimate goal of being attractive to him again. People gravitate to attractive people, you need to make him WANT to come back now. I know - easier said than done. I haven't read your sitch yet but just posted based on the last post you made.
Again, I'm sorry to hear that he moved out. But you can use this time to really take care of yourself, OK?
Thanks. One of the issues with us is I lost weight so he finds me somewhat attractive but the OM made me a running schedule so he sees my weight loss for OM and not anyone else. I don't blame him but I don't know how to show him it wasn't for him. And how do you make yourself attractive to someone who is repulsed at "the new you"??
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
