He is absolutly right when he says this. He has lost the person that he fell in love with, however many years ago it was. That is why it is your job to dig that old person up and show him that you are still the same Gotta Change that you were when you M.
Glad you did not take offense to the slut comment.
Either way he need to see the changes in you are for real. Not just to win his trust back. First thing is to quit being part of the argument circle. "YOU" put "YOURSELF" into that sitch.
Take care sista, O
Glad my 2 cents helps at least one person...
So how do I respond when he says he lost me and or you've destroyed us? I'm sorry you feel this way? I think I'm going to need a few variations of that one - because it could get old really fast. Whenever he says things like that they are conversation killers for me. I end up feeling lost and hopeless....which makes me quiet.
Quiet = Bad
Today is probably going to be a very long exhausting day. He's bored at work and he's hung over from last night.
At least I got out last night, did some grocery shopping for our trip and had some Vietnamese Noodle soup for dinner. My food of choice when he's not around.
I think it was the "slut" comment that ended up helping. It at least made me smile
