He is absolutly right when he says this. He has lost the person that he fell in love with, however many years ago it was. That is why it is your job to dig that old person up and show him that you are still the same Gotta Change that you were when you M.
Glad you did not take offense to the slut comment.
Either way he need to see the changes in you are for real. Not just to win his trust back. First thing is to quit being part of the argument circle. "YOU" put "YOURSELF" into that sitch.
Take care sista, O
Glad my 2 cents helps at least one person...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."