If the compliments are not working try somthing else. Have you read "Five Love Languages"? Maybe you are just pushing the wrong buttons as far as showing your love.

Just continue to make him feel safe and comfortable around you. Trust is a very hard thing to regain when crap like this unfolds. However, in time he will start to trust you again.

What does he like to do?


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