Quote: I do tell him that....and his response "yeah, now...after you've had your 'fill'" He asked all kinds of questions about what we did together and I've answered honestly and brutally sometimes. But it always was that he is and was better. But then he focuses on "he was still good enough to take you from me..."
He wants me to talk to him, to ease his pain....when i tell him i love him and I tell him I stopped all contact with OM and that I want us to grow old together. He tells me to stop talking about me and what I want. It's confusing the heck out of me...
I've asked about counseling - he feels that he loved me so well and so deeply that they would only try to tell him he was wrong somehow. He's never believed in it and feels we can work on this together. On the other hand....he has said "if all else fails, we can go to counseling." Which gives me some hope...
He's entitled to all of the stuff he's feeling. He's hurt, angry, mad, etc. The list goes on. He wants you to hurt like he is - he's going to say mean things. Took my H about 2 months to really start that up (matter of fact, my A was in Sept. as well - and the past few days have really been hell at our house.)
Praying for you. Answer him honestly, but don't get baited into a fight. He didn't "take" you from him, if you're still there. Not sure if you should point that out though...
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
