What I wanted to her from my cheating spouse is that he desires me, that I"m his future now, that he only wants me.
Tell him what he wants to know, does he about things you did together? He (like others here) is prob comparing himself to him, I asked my H insistently to at least tell me how sex was better than when he was w/the ow, in a desperate efford to hear from his lips that he preferred me better.
Have you tried counceling? it is not a silver bullet but is a great chance for the two of you to talk without pointing fingers and have the other shoot the other partner down.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
