I confessed to my H about having two affairs in September and I did it poorly. It took 2 months of him asking and prodding to get all of the info out of me. Now he doesn't believe a word I'm saying - rightfully so.
Recently, he's stopped asking. Now he wants me to "talk" to him, to help him understand how I could have done this to him, how to help him get past 7 years worth of betrayal. I tell him what I've done (changed jobs), what I'm going to do (no contact with OM) and what my plans for our future are, but he's not interested in hearing about the things I can control.
He wants answers about him - and I don't know what to give him. We spend hours at night in silence, until he's at a boiling point because I don't know what to say.
