I would give anything for the opportunity. When H came around in July. We were kissing on our deck and he said that I still had that affect on him. I still wish I had asked him what he wanted to do about it. I didn't and wished I had as soon as he left. I can't help but think things might not have started with OW, if I had taken care of his needs that night. They got together from 1 to 3 weeks after that night.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.