I can relate to the insecurity issue..SO MUCH. That is what wrecked our reconciliation that was going well this summer. I couldn't handle him going out with others where he was in mixed company (and didn't ask me to go).
If you get a chance, take a stop by my post. Had talk w/H last night and it went well. But I have to remember to stay ME Focused.
I hope I will have a romantic weekend in the near future. Maybe I will put that on my list of goals!