I just wanted to add that we've settled into a mellow rhythm that is pleasant and very undramatic. Bf settling financial issues with ex has contributed to calmer atmosphere. His daughters are off at college so that has changed the vibe around here. We're spending at lot more time at my house, and I'm spending time there alone. We've become involved in this startup synagogue. BF is getting into some online sound healing stuff. It's a whole new ballgame. His finances are still a mess and his house is still a mess. He's starting to notice the house.... that's a good thing. He's been completely sober for two years and eight months-- his first really sober time in over 20 years. He has a LOT of catching up to do. His recovery is teaching me patience.
A lot of my growth is due to the help I've received here, and I'm VERY grateful. Happy holidays, my online friends.
