Hey - glad things are ok with you and I'm glad you have found a way to be realistic and enjoy the good things. I would have had a tough time with the "is that all you want?" discussion. Sounds like you handled it well. I really take my hat off to the self control a lot of the guys on this board demonstrate because every woman's magazine on the market says that if he's not getting it at home a couple of times a week - he's getting it somewhere else. For me, one of the values of this board has been in hearing the exceptions to those time worn rules of being feminine or masculine.
