Ok...Lil's last and most of the intj moving towards...I don't understand cuz I've not been exposed to the science.

Cac, have you driven a clutch/manual car? Must you always use the tach or can you shift by "feel or ear"?

My analogy may be just too romantic to let the guys identify with it. Which also explains why I can't get my H to understand "intimacy".

Why would God make us this much at odds?

Merry Christmas, Happy Channukah and Solstis Salutations. (Other Greetings of the Season as they apply too)

Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay