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If only people came with instruments, life would be a whole lot easier for folks like me...


And then you wouldn't have to grow at all, would you?

Anyway, Jung says that in the latter years of your life, you should try to develop your opposite qualities... so that if you're an introvert, you should try to become more extraverted, if you're a thinking type to develop your feeling side more.

So the INTJ should be moving in the direction of the ESFP... it's not logical to stay the same all your life with out growing. The classifications are not meant to be used as an excuse for why you can't get along in the world.