Thank you very much for your input. Very much. That helps me a great deal as all this stuff churns in my Corri mind. But just so you all know... I'm not OVER thinking this, or fretting...
Honey:
I absolutely agree with you. Absolutely. I agree with bf, certainly, but I am with you on a woman being TOO assertive. BF, Deida discusses this in his book... on what happens when a man is too passive and a woman has to become more assertive... and it DOES throw off the chemistry of the R. Now... it isn't a problem if it is well-balanced within the R (a man showing F traits and a woman showing M traits)... but there are many times when this DOES get out of balance... and what happens then, our HP is very, very well aware of.
Have you read the Deida book, HP? If you haven't, I'd bet you'd find it really interesting, just for your own knowledge.