The mating dance begins with the girls and that will never change.
I suppose I object to the current setup where young dudes are learning to sit back and be passive and let the female world come to them. They need to at least know HOW to interact in a way that jives with their biological setup.
You see, I have this friend who was super aggressive with this guy she had her eye on...she asked him out, etc. It set up a dynamic from the very first date of her being in charge and him being along for the ride--even though it was a ride he wanted to be on. Eventually, they married and had 3 daughters and they were locked in this dynamic that didn't really satisfy either one of them. The guy had spent his whole life letting himself be 'chased' instead of chasing and didn't know how to tap into this side of his masculinity. The wife, well, she was just a freakin mess, lol. Had no idea how to be feminine in a way that appealed to men--she had just always counted on her sexuality.
Anyway, enough about them.
Just wanted to say that I agree with you that young girls have always chased boys but the boys need to know how to chase back.
P.S. Sorry for the crash and burn. It did make me laugh, though, sadistic female that I am.
