Corri,
I like your approach! It's beautiful!

I was thinking of the How to Instill Confidence question and all I could think of were answers on what NOT to do. So I think you will do fine. Mostly, I believe it involves what you said: Telling them that they know what to do which, in turn, causes them to figure out what is the right thing to do and do it. Presumably. lol

I think dancing is a great suggestion but I would also think of things that appeal to the testosterone-driven creature that he is...things involving aggression that I can't think of right now, as I am woefully inadequate in the T area.
All I know is that H not-so-nicely informed me a couple days ago that I don't know squat about the male approach to life and therefore should stay out of his interactions with other males.
So you might want to ask what things appeal to him and encourage him to develop those curiosities.

Good thing I don't have to worry about such things, seeing as how I have 3 daughters. Oh noooooooooooo I'll get to worry about which guy they are thinking of offering oral sex since it doesn't "count".
aaaaaaaaaghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh a million times over.

I think Willie's song shoulda been Mamas Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up to be Teenagers.

H.