Wow Sheila. I haven't really been following your sitch but I have read with interest when you have posted on other's threads. I'm so pleased for you. I think when i read this last post of yours I learned something about myself and my h that I had never realised before. We have a long way to go and may never reconcile but just reading this post gave me a lot of hope. I wish you well.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15