And the communication between you and J – awesome.
Keep doing what you are doing. As one who knows first hand about being controlling, you are doing great. You are aware and that is half the battle. Let J do it on his own. The training wheels are off the bike so let him ride and even fall on his own. That will further enhance the trust and respect and that is all important as you know.
Have a happy New Year. I started a new thread should you choose to harass me.
Goal for 2007: find me another potential dancing partner – Piglet is getting hitched!