Hi Piglet,
Things sound really good for you. You, like me, seem to have a hard time managing our emotions. We also have a hard time with unrealistic expectations.

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It's just making time for the passionate relationship that we've neglected. And, J has admitted that he went through a period of time when he didnt know if he loved me, was attracted to me, etc.





Ditto on my sitch as well.

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He said we need to get comfortable and get to know each other all over again.. explore our likes and dislikes and said his goal is for us to feel as comfortable and passionate as we did in the beginning of our M.





I wonder if this is how my H might be feeling as well.

Anyhow, while snuggling with your H I know you had all kinds of fears raise their ugly little head. Try not to let that happen, just live in the moment with no worries. Enjoy your time together!