It sounds like you are disappointed in the R. Is it primarily about the physical intimacy? Have you two made progress in this area? Has he acknowledged what he needs to work on to make this better?
I wasn't able to acknowledge my intimacy issues until after the separation. I was blinded by my anger about the R at the time, and focused on her issues. I can now acknowledge that I need to work on enhancing my desire, and improving my sexual skills. It's still easy to fall back into old patterns. I have to work on this because my W isn't happy with our current frequency, even though we used to go 1-3 months between sexual encounters.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
