So sorry to hear you're in a similar sitch. It makes me almost sick to see how many of us there are and how similar our situations are. I feel like "if I knew then what I know now" nothing would be the same.
Thanks for your words of support.
I have no energy to post details of our MC right now and will probably post it on the new thead... but in short it went about like I thought, an hour's worth of hashing out separation details. BUT I am very happy that H was willing to talk through it all with me and we came to a lot of good understandings I think. The MC said she had huge respect for us both for working through it and thinking hard instead of jumping into any actions.
I just wish it hurt less.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread