Hi Julie,

Thanks for checking in. You're right, the detaching is really, really hard. I think it's the hardest part... so much fear associated with it you know? If I detach too far will I lose my desire to keep the M going? What if I detach and H really does move on without me? I know we all ask ourselves the same things over and over.

haha..about the guys, yeah I definitely enjoy the affirmation! They're pretty much all H's friends so if he leaves I probably won't see them that much, but I'll take the compliments where I can get 'em.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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