Lots of positives here. And you are right, you need to be detaching more. But it's so hard when we start to feel hope. Then we can slide back down that slippery slope again. So keep working on the detaching and yourself. Sounds like you are getting some good affirmation from men in your life- love it. Wish I could get more of that. I get the 'you're such an inspiration' from my sisters which I value, but I wouldn't mind hearing how hot I am.