hey, there were still a lot of good things there. More than what my H offered before he asked me to stay at my moms for a while.

We were apart for a month. (what's funny was, I was gone for 4 months the whole last part of last year due to my back going out, and then our oldes s8 having surgery, so he had that whole time by himself!)

Anyways, don't worry about him if he does decide to S. It's okay. I bet you that he'll be constantly coming over, or calling you. As long as you continue to take care of yourself and GAL.

Just keep validating his needs. if he feels like he needs time alone. agree with him. It really might be good. My H text me a week early that he wanted me to be his wife forever and couldn't wait to tell me when he was planning to.

Hang in there, and don't stress about your hyperventilation, that can only make it worse!!!! I know you already know that though, but it helps when people tell you again.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."