wow DonH. I must have been very close at the same thing. Of course most times would be after I snooped on my H's phone to see that he txt her a million times and then I would get back in bed shaking uncontrollably and shivering and breathing fast, but luckily I would eventually fall asleep so I guess that stopped me from hyperventillating.
Nikki, I am sooooooo sorry you went thru that. That IS really weird since you were having a good day.
Totally don't be upset by him seeing you. It's totally okay, and it's not going to ruin anything. You just show him how strong you are to overcome it and that it is no big deal to you. The bigger you make this out to be will be the problem. and I think your response to him was fine too, telling him that it is your responsibility to overcome this.
hey, what would the "old" Nikki do if this happened to you? Just curious. I think the old Crissy would have been depressed or something thinking, 'oh great, something else is wrong with me'. But don't YOU think that. That was a natural reaction your body is having due to the stress that you are dealing with. Every body deals with stress differently. And now that you know what it is, and Don has told you how to keep from it happening again, you can get passed this with flying colors!
We love you! So happy that you are okay! Crissy
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
