Just caught up on your thread. You are getting some great advice here. I also think it's great that H said he wished you'd stayed in bed.
Quote: That is why I praise God for what he allowed me to go thru. A Wake-Up call INDEED!
I am so at this point also. All of the sudden it hit me that I had been sleepwalking thru life and my M. I am so thankful that my H had the cojones to stand up and say, nope, I'm not going to settle for a M like this. Just wish he'd gone about it different, but maybe I needed this wake up call. I don't know where I'll end up on this journey, but I feel that it is a wonderful thing that I am taking a path less traveled. I feel so alive and strong. You will soon get to the place that you realize you are thankful for the opportunity to work on yourself and make yourself fantastic. You will benefit regardless of the outcome w/ you M.
