NikkiB's new thread, new life

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Hi Nikki. Oldtimer beat me to the punch, but IMO you've made the right move.

Quoting you in bold.

And I can always hope to only use it for estate planning!

I hope you don't need it for anything but that either.

Also, I've forgotten your exact sitch, H is still there, but you two are about to separate, right?

Is there any reason to be discreet about this expenditure? i.e. if he found out, what might happen?

Not advocating secrecy, mind you, but you might want to think about how he'd take this if he found out. That said, I do think you need to do whatever to protect yourself legally, first and foremost, then worry about things like this...

Take care,