well i called H on monday left him a voicemail saying that he has till the 15th of jan to file a response and if he doesnt then it will be final shortly after that and that i hope he is happy that he got what he wanted but not on his terms and i hope he and OW have a nice life and that i still love him and would take him back, he hasnt called since i left him taht vm, so last time we spoke was sun night
