I"m not sure about spousal support, but I wouldnt' believe anything he said, give CS a call and see if that indeed is true. For your own sanity I woulnt' even bothering talking to the ow, I'm sure it hurts you and I"m sure she says quite a few things to you, so keep that to a minimun melissa.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.