Oh Nicola - I am sooo sorry that I had to shatter your illusions. But while we are on the subject, dressing up like a schoolgirl isn't about wanting to improve your knowledge of history. It is a sad, bad world we live in . . . .
Angelica [looks like I might get to use my porn star name after all]
Can we have some fun??? I know most of us are not going to be having the best Christmas of our lives this year but we can still have some fun and forget about the dismal stuff for a little bit.
Can you list:
The most AWFUL Christmas gift you ever received?
The BEST gift you ever received?
The most UNUSUAL gift you have ever received?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
My worst and most unusual Christmas gift would be one and the same. They came the second Christmas after my ex left. I was trying to detach (we had been separated for 15 months) so I let him visit with the kids in my family room and open gifts under my tree. I went out for the afternoon while this took place.I had certainly not bought anything for him. When I returned he had left 3 gifts for me. Strange, since we were barely speaking and he had been living with maggot for 14 months. One was a poinsettia, one was a canister of Tim Horton's coffee (I live in Canada) and the picture on the can was of a hockey player - he told D he had gone to every Tim Horton's to find the right picture (I don't even like hockey and never have???) but the ultimate was the 3rd gift. It was a jar with little orange fruits in it. We didn't know what it was. Later it was identified as a jar of kumquats! maggot must have told him I'd love it. I just remember thinking WTF and crying and crying out of confusion, loss and hurt. It came to be known as the Kumquat Christmas.
My best gift was 21 years ago, it was the year after my son got brain damage and had been in and out of hospitals for months. Finally, clutching at straws, I had taken him to a hospital in Minnesota, trying to find some answers and some hope. What I didn't know was that my health insurance only covered 75% and I ended up with a huge hospital bill and little hope of paying it off.
On the morning of Christmas Eve I got a phone call. It was my uncle (now deceased). He said he was hoping to stop by for a visit that morning. (Gosh, I'm getting choked up just writing this). He arrived with a Christmas card and lots of hugs. Inside the envelope was the money to pay off the hospital bill. He had heard of our struggle (we are proud people and really had only told my parents), and contacted all my other aunts, uncles and cousins and everyone had chipped in what they could. I cried and cried that year too. Tears of relief. Tears of gratefulness. Tears of Love. Tears for my son, Ryan.
3 of those uncles and my own Mom have passed away in the last 10 years but the memories of the good they did will remain forever. I hope everyone keeps that in mind this Christmas and finds someone who is worse off than themselves and does something nice. I know that I will.
BND: I continue to pray for you and yours this Christmas. Thank you for giving me this opportunity to share my story.
Thanks for sharing, Barbie. That was a great post. Love the bit about the Tim Horton's mug! Just imagine him running all over town looking for it, and you having no clue why!! Ha! So typical of the MLCer to be clueless even when they are trying to be thoughtful.
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You're right, Nicola - he didn't have a clue and he was so proud of his "perfect" gift. YOU have certainly know Tim's though, I see you are a fellow Canuck!!!
Glad you found the cash register!