You got it kirby, this is something that you cannot fix with your regular tools and technical abilities. I did the same things you did, I want to talk about the R and to try and find what was wrong. I tried to reason with the W, but those things don't work. I have tried to detach in a way and keep in my mind to be the person I was before my W me. It just makes the GAL and PMA more difficult if I dwell on thinking about what the W and OM are talking about, if they meet during lunch breaks, if she calls him on the way to and from work.
Less of the thinking about them makes this a little easier.
