what's your way of expressing love? What is your wife's way of receiving it? Does she want physical touch, words, TIME (that's mine), or what? Do you know? I want to note that most of us have more than one, but maybe one just rings more for us than some of the others. I am not big on gifts BUT I sort of expect one on the "special" days - anniversary, birthday and Christmas. Beyond that, nope. Just want H to plan dates or a trip that I like, as opposed to camping/hunting trips HE likes and I go along with. It'll happen, and Hawaii is likely part of that. SO, like I said, what is your Wifes' love language preference order? IF you MUST think of OM, ask yourself what she said he gave her, what type of love language did he "speak" IF any....mind you, this may not be about her getting "love" for real, it's possible it's all fantasy in her mind and all the missing parts get filled in with positive images...just asking. Don't focus on it if it makes you crazy. Just wondering if there is something you could learn from it. If not, let it go. IF so, learn it, process it, and then leave it alone and let it go. Don't obsess about om, b/c that will help no one, except maybe, om....
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
