She left, came back, still loves OM, what do I do

[kirby]

thanks for taking the time to post J, especially since you're probably pretty busy. How is it going? Hawaii? Fantastic. I wish I could swing a trip like that. I've been to Pearl Harbor when I was in the service, and have always wanted to take the familiy there, especially the kids.

Thanks for the pat on the back. I don't get compliments from W, and I think my love language is verbal affirmation, or something like that (just started the book). I've always felt I work harder and better with encouragement than with pressure. Unfortunately, most bosses only focus on problems.

Sorry to hear your MIL is a problem. My mil is crazy, and of course she'll support her daughter, but she also is supportive of me, and the kids. If I were a fruedian, she would be the prime suspect for all of my W's problems

My last time in HI, a local took me out to eat at some of the places locals eat. I like food, all kinds. I found that much Hawaiin food is too salty, fishy for me. the Mai Tais are always good.