You cannot control your wife or whether she has contact with OM. Period. You CANNOT CONTROL YOUR WIFE"S BEHAVIOR....so stop trying.
You are wasting so much of your life's energy on something you Cannot do, and where should/could that energy be better spent? With YOURSELF, working on you, Your Children - who need you now more than ever, and or your M with your W. Not your R with OM or HER R with OM......
no matter what you find or do not find out about OM or contact with your W, you will NOT find peace...IF you do find they talked, you'll be upset and if you don't find that,you will still wonder. It is pointless. Be strong. And I haven't posted in a few days, H is here now so I can't do this for too long. He'll think I'm having an A with YOU....??!!
Good luck, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
