25yearsmic,

I am sure you are a great attorney, but you could also be a great Psycologist with the sound advice you give, not just to me, but to others I see. God has given you some great gifts and I am sure you are thankful for each one of them. You could be charging a fee, but instead, you do it our of the goodness of your heart. I wish I was a little more like you. Based on your heart and talents, I hope your H realizes the risk he is taking if you decide to leave.
Rocco