She left, came back, still loves OM, what do I do

[kirby]

Thanks TL, sounds like good advice. I'll struggle with some of it, but it sounds good.

Detach, detach, detach. Give her space to work through this stuff.

I think that it's an important point to think about building the history. I'll remember that, and work on building a positive history, and avoiding as much negative as possible.

Some stuff to think about there too, like what crap I might be putting out for her to deal with. I think I'm just being honest and sharing my feelings, but to her it's crap she has to deal with. I need to think about this, and what other crap I might be throwing at her.

She came home. Patience. detach, give her space. Patience. (April, huh? I can do that. )